Why Kids Struggle with Salah

And How to Help Them Love It

Salah is the cornerstone of our faith, yet many parents struggle to instill a love for it in their children. The reminders, the nagging, the frustration—it can feel like a constant battle.

But before we address the solutions, we need to understand why children struggle with Salah in the first place.

1. They See It as a Chore, Not a Connection

Many kids view Salah as another task on their to-do list—like brushing their teeth or finishing homework. They don’t feel its importance because they haven’t yet developed a personal connection with Allah.

2. Lack of Understanding

Without knowing why we pray, it’s hard to find motivation. Kids may hear "pray or you'll have consequences," but that instills fear, not love. If they don’t grasp Salah’s significance, it remains an empty action rather than a meaningful act of devotion.

3. Inconsistent Routine

If Salah isn’t prioritized at home, it won’t be a priority for them. A rushed, last-minute prayer or constant delays send the message that other things come first. Without consistency, it’s easy for them to dismiss it.

4. Distractions & Overstimulation

In a world of screens, games, and endless activities, sitting still for a few minutes can feel like a challenge. If prayer isn’t engaging, their attention naturally drifts elsewhere.

5. Lack of Positive Role Models

Kids mirror what they see. If they don’t witness their parents or older siblings praying with focus and love, they won’t feel inspired to do the same. A “do as I say, not as I do” approach rarely works.

6. They Don't Feel a Sense of Ownership

When Salah is forced upon them without making them feel included in the journey, resistance builds. If they don’t feel personally invested, their motivation remains external rather than internal.

How to Help Kids Build a Love for Salah

Now that we understand why they struggle, here’s how we can nurture their love for Salah:

1. Shift from Commanding to Connecting

Instead of saying, "Go pray now!" try, "Come, let’s pray together." Making Salah a shared experience rather than an imposed obligation makes a difference.

2. Teach the Why Behind Salah

Help them see Salah as a gift, not a burden. Share stories about how the Prophet ﷺ found comfort in prayer, how it strengthens our connection with Allah, and how it brings peace.

3. Make Salah a Beautiful Experience

Let them have their own special prayer mat, wear nice clothes, or choose a favorite spot to pray. Little things can make Salah feel special rather than routine.

4. Be Consistent & Prioritize It

Set clear prayer times and stick to them. When kids see that Salah comes before everything else, they naturally follow.

5. Celebrate Their Efforts

Encourage and praise them for praying—even if it’s not perfect. A simple "I love that you prayed today" can reinforce positive feelings around Salah.

6. Enroll Them in a Course That Guides Them Gently

Sometimes, kids just need a space where Salah is taught in a way that speaks to them—with stories, engagement, and motivation. That’s why I created My Salah Course—a fun, interactive program designed to help kids understand and love their prayers.

The current session ends on February 26, but a new one is starting right after Ramadan on April 14th inshaAllah! If you want your child to build a lifelong love for Salah, register now to secure a spot.

🔗 Click here to register for My Salah Course!